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A 3 Month 1-1 Journey

DEAR BODY

For women who keep quitting every fitness program they start
and are ready to find out why

For women who keep quitting every fitness program they start
and are ready to find out why

30 min . no pressure . just a conversation

You have started over so many times.
A new app. A new gym. A new Monday.

And somehow you always end up here again.

The voice that says you have no discipline.

That other women can do this. That something must be wrong with you.

There is nothing wrong with you.

The programs were wrong for your body.

The problem was never willpower.
It was lack of practical steps to bring joy to every movement!

Because that's what it's meant to feel like.
Not a task
not a burden


Just JOY.

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Hi Beautiful Soul

Glad to see you here

I am Sahar Shams, a certified Psychosomatic practitioner.
I help women move from joy, not punishment, so movement becomes a natural part of their everyday life.

I know something about you that you may have forgotten. Your body already knows how to move with joy. You were born knowing. Watch any child and you will see it. They do not exercise. They play. They spin. They run for the pure feeling of it. That natural joy did not disappear. It just got buried under years of programs that told you movement was something you had to earn, force, or suffer through. My work is simply to clear the way. So your body can remember what it always knew. Nothing is wrong with you. That is why I built Dear Body.

With so much belief in what is possible for you,

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The research is clear

Women who move naturally every day are not more disciplined. They found something their body actually loves.

Research in psychology and neuroscience shows that lasting movement only comes from one place: joy, safety, and choice. Not punishment. Not guilt. Not a punishing app telling you that you failed.

of adults never exercise at all in a given week

predictor of sticking with movement long term

is enjoyment, not discipline

#1

Annals of Behavioral Medicine

50%

Sperandei et al., 2016

National Survey, 2021

40%

of people who start an exercise programme quit within the first 3 months

What Dear Body is

A completely different kind of program

We do not start with a workout plan. We start with one question: what does your body actually enjoy? Everything we build comes from your answer.

1- Science based

Not another trend. Every method in this program comes from decades of research on why humans move, and why they stop.

2- Concrete, embodied steps

Clear practices that slowly rewire how you relate to movement. Not for 3 months. For life.

3- Your program will be written by your body

Most programs tell your body what to do. This one asks your body what it needs.
Every session, every practice, every step emerges from what your body tells us. I am simply the one who knows how to listen with you

Evidence based program

Built on research, not trends

Every method in Dear Body comes from a research-backed field.

Deci & Ryan

Self-Determination Theory

Self-Determination Theory

Peter Levine

Somatic Experiencing

BJ Fogg · Stanford

Tiny Habits

Richard Schwartz

Internal Family Systems

Read the full research article 

Disclaimer 

The information provided on this website, is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The coaching services offered through this site, including Somatic and (IFS)-informed coaching, are not psychotherapy, counseling, or medical care, and should not be treated as such. Each individual’s experience is unique and depends on various personal factors. By using this website, you acknowledge that you are solely responsible for any decisions you make based on the content provided. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or have concerns about your psychological well-being, please seek support from a licensed mental health professional.

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